Let's start with a story. Ever since elementary school, I had a friend-- a best friend actually-- and we grew up together, basically as close as friends can be at the time. But as time went on, she became ever so judgmental. She called me weird, but I didn't care. She put me down, but I didn't care. She practically began not to value my life and only take, take, take from this little, small soul and never give in return. I began to see the light when she got a new (yes I said new, she was basically a slut with men, oh my, excuse my french) boyfriend. She treated me like crap. So I let her go. Now I'm much more happier with people that actually cared about me and wanted to spend time with me.
What does this have to do with my vehement rage? Absolutely nothing. But anyways, I know guys have this point system where they try to play as many girls as possible. Why they do this, I don't have a fucking clue. But is there a limit, a ground where you just need to stop? Hell fucking yes. When it comes to just looking at girls as objects, just judging them by their looks, there's something absolutely disgusting and absolutely wrong occurring. When a guy only talks about how girls look, for example, "She's so hot," and they're a 13 year old girl, you have a lonely, sad excuse for a human being. Let's use literary examples. In John Milton's Paradise Lost (very complex and hard to read epic by the way), the first sentence describes the purpose of the epic: to describe the fall of man. What was the fall of man? Was it when Eve bit into the Fruit of Knowledge? Was it when Eve had the thoughts of temptation? Was it when Satan was still an angel and thought that he should be the one in charge, not God? I'm atheist by the way, but the theme and values still apply. Both Adam and Eve fell, but what made Adam fall? May truth behold, it was Adam's physical attraction, his lust, for his beloved with Eve. He chose what he wanted over what God decreed, what he should do. Guys should NOT idolize girls for their beauty. This is what they want to do, something that they don't (and shouldn't) do. What they should do is treat her nice, not make her a victim of harassment or an object of lust.
You see, there's more important things than a girl's beauty. There's her intellect, her personality, her laugh, the emotion that reflects in her eyes; her beauty (or "hotness") is not the only quality of a woman. If you're overcome by lust and it completely controls your personality, your way of life, how people perceive you, you need to look past how round a woman's ass is and how big her rack is and move the fuck along. This inability to get over your overpowering lust just shows how much of a virgin you are. Now, I haven't even touched the subject on how to treat them. Oh ho, not even begun. A woman is not an object. We are just the counterpart to the male, the complete opposite in terms of qualities and strengths. Does this make us different? In a sense yes, but we are all equal. All. Equal. So, tell me why men try to make themselves feel superior by degrading women and trying to be "players." It's absolutely stupid.
Think about... let's see... 10-20 years from now. You'd be married (hopefully, unless you're like a certain someone and try to feel up every pixelated girl you see) with a wife that loves you and hopefully, you love her back. How are you supposed to treat her? Like crap? No, she's your dream girl, the girl that you married. Now give that respect to every other girl on the planet, we're all the same. Women don't like it when creepy guys, let's say around 20 with no life, grab their asses (especially if they're pixelated). They especially don't like it when guys tell blatantly that they're hot or not. Well, why not hot? It's a compliment, yes? Well no, it isn't. Let's take this scenario for example. The creepy guy, the one around 20 with no life, tells a girl that she's hot, that she's drop dead gorgeous. Next to her, is another girl, but the guy doesn't say anything to her. What is she supposed to think? Oh, she's hot, so apparently I'm not. That makes you look like a fucking pig, a swine that has nothing better to do other than make an ass of himself. By saying that someone is hot, you're setting a bar for another, sometimes a bar that's completely out of reach. We all aren't blessed with beauty, but we all are blessed with breasts and vaginas, so be thankful for that.
You must be asking yourself why I'm ranting like so. Well, a certain pig won't learn his lesson. I'm just setting the facts straight to myself and maybe get to this fucking swine so other girls won't suffer this awful, sorry excuse for a man's pathetic attempt to find a girlfriend, in which, I know he will never get because he's making such an ass of himself.
ShadowMonkey.
That finger is for you. It's in a language that you'll understand; a half naked woman that you can never have.
1 comment:
It's a shame really. I know there's more than just looks in a girl, but in almost (and I do mean pretty much all) case scenarios looks are the first impression. You can really get to know someone unless they catch your attention after all.
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